I’ll help you identify what’s keeping you stuck so you can begin moving toward clarity, peace, and God’s truth.

ONE-ON-ONE
GRIEF BREAKTHROUGH

Session

It’s time to begin navigating life after the loss of your loved one and move toward God's peace. Right now, you may feel stuck in grief, weighed down by guilt, angry at God, have unanswered questions and unsure how to move forward. This session is where we identify what’s keeping you stuck and begin shifting you toward clarity, truth, and peace only Christ, the Divine Physician, can give.

IT IS POSSIBLE TO LIVE AFTER LOSS WITH PEACE

This is for me!
  • Move forward in the middle of overwhelm, the unanswered questions, and the weight of grief that’s keeping you stuck? 
  • Process your grief in a way that honors your loved one without feeling like you’re losing them all over again or dreading what life looks like now? 
  • Begin to untangle the guilt, the “what ifs,” and the thoughts that keep replaying in your mind? 
  • Have someone walk with you who understands this kind of loss and can help you move toward peace, clarity, and trust in God again?

IMAGINE IF YOU COULD

start here

This is where we start, because you need a space to process what happened without feeling dismissed, rushed, or misunderstood. Together, we’ll begin to uncover what’s keeping you stuck, the questions that won’t leave your mind, and the weight you’ve been carrying on your own. I will help you see your grief more clearly and begin moving toward peace. Are you ready to stop feeling stuck? To begin untangling the guilt? To take a real step toward peace?

You don't have to do this alone

I'm ready!

ARE YOU EXHAUSTED FROM REPLAYING IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN? WHAT’S KEEPING YOU STUCK IN GRIEF AND GUILT?

I'm ready!

Christ, the Divine Physician has cut a way through your grief, and is ready to begin your healing! He has sent me to walk beside you. I am confident He can do more with your yes than you can see right now. I look forward to what He will begin restoring in you.

YOU WERE NOT MADE TO FIGURE THIS OUT ALONE

ONE HOUR SESSION

$47

yes i need this!

Join me for a one on one session where we walk through what’s keeping you stuck in your grief and guilt. Together, we’ll identify what’s been weighing on you and take a clear step toward peace, clarity, and truth. Within 24 hours, you’ll receive personalized notes from our session so you can continue applying what we uncovered and move forward with intention.

Session

ONE-ON-ONE
GRIEF BREAKTHROUGH

INCLUDES: 60-minute session, personalized notes, replay + next steps

✕ feel at peace with your loss and aren’t struggling
✕ don’t want help processing your grief
✕ would rather stay in the same cycle
✕ want to hold on to your guilt instead of letting it go
✕ are not open to looking at your thoughts and beliefs
✕ aren’t ready to take a step forward
✕ don’t want support in this season

THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF YOU...

✓ feel stuck in your grief 
✓ you don’t know how to move forward
✓ replay what happened over and over again
✓ feel weighed down by guilt or “what ifs”
✓ are asking why God allowed this
✓ want peace but don’t know how to get there
✓ are ready to take one step toward healing

THIS IS FOR YOU IF YOU...

i want this!

You may be here because you’re asking… Why didn’t God answer my prayers? Was it my fault? How do I move forward when everything has changed? You may feel stuck in your grief… carrying guilt… replaying what happened… wondering if you’ll ever feel peace again.

That is what shaped this work. I am not here to offer you a way around grief. I am here to walk with you through it… to help you face what feels heavy, untangle the guilt and the “what ifs,” and begin to see your story in the light of truth.

I offer one on one accompaniment rooted in Scripture and the Catholic faith… pointing you to Christ, the Divine Physician & Counselor who heals and restores us all.

You do not have to carry this alone. Let’s walk together.

At every Catholic Funeral, we hear these words:

“For your faithful, O Lord, life has changed not ended; while our earthly dwelling is destroyed, a new and eternal dwelling is prepared for us in Heaven.”

“Don’t worry, be happy.”

Those were the last words my little brother, Nimo, pointed to on his hospital whiteboard. His 10 month hospital journey came to an end on April 12, 2016, with his death at 18 years old. Did we beg God for his healing and restored health? Yes. Was he healed? Yes. He was healed permanently through death.

Since then, I’ve lost many loved ones, and yet, “the peace that surpasses all understanding,” is ever present---God is real, friends. Heaven is real. We have hope that this life is not the end, but is simply a pilgrimage to our forever home: Heaven.


One of the sorrows of life on earth is grieving
the loss of people you love.

HELLO FRIEND, I'M ALOISIA TOILOLO I GO BY "SIA" FOR SHORT

You are not alone. This is exactly what we will begin to work through together. 

What if I feel stuck in guilt or anger toward God?

No. This is accompaniment rooted in Scripture and the Catholic faith, not therapy or psychological treatment.

Is this therapy or counseling?

Yes. Everything rooted in Scripture and grounded in the Catholic understanding of suffering, healing, and truth.

Is this Catholic?

A one-on-one grief breakthrough session where we identify what's keeping you stuck and take a clear step toward peace through Christ, the Divine Physician.

What is this session?

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CONTACT SIA AT: HELLO@SPIRITUALICU.COM

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